Yearly Archives: 2017

Leaving a Legacy Podcast with John Gillespie

Greg Gunn talks to financial advisor John Gillespie about passing on your values before passing on your money!

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John G. Gillespie, CEP, RFC® Certified Estate Planner, Registered Financial Consultant, President and CEO of AFG, and author of, “The Power of Seven Personal Financial Disciplines.” Mr. Gillespie has been a personal financial advisor since 1982. He is also the founder of Access Charitable Consultants and Carved In Stone, Inc. Mr. Gillespie received his Bachelor of Science degree from Trevecca Nazarene University, in Nashville, Tennessee. AFG is guided by Mr. Gillespie’s experience with Trusts, Estate Planning, Investments, Financial Management, and Charitable Gift Planning. Mr. Gillespie holds series 65 registrations.

Active in industry and community organizations, Mr. Gillespie is a member of the National Association of Charitable Estate Counselors, the National Council of Certified Estate Planners, and the Northwest Oklahoma City Chamber of Commerce. He is a faithful supporter of CBMC (Christian Business Mens Connection), and serves on the board of Stand in the Gap Ministries and the National Christian Foundation Generosity Board.

Mr. Gillespie has a son, Jason, and he and his wife, Celeste, of 39 years have two beautiful daughters, Candace and Lauren. The Gillespies are the proud grandparents of three precious granddaughters, Rielyn, Kennedy, and Larkyn, as well as a handsome grandson, Karter.

Raising Responsible Kids

Consistency and clear expectations are key when it comes to teaching your kids to be responsible. Plan out and put on paper the benefits and the responsibilities that come with being a part of your family. Let your kids know exactly what it is they are responsible for and exactly when you want the jobs completed. At this time, explain the benefits of completing the tasks in full and on time, and communicate to them that parents will no longer be issuing reminders. Everyone involved should sign the declaration, and from that point on the natural course of consequence will teach them to get their jobs done on time and in full.
Letting natural consequences teach is incredibly difficult because, first, it does not work immediately, and second, none of us want to see our children miss out on fun things. For the first couple of weeks, your children will probably not get their chores done in full and on time. If you follow them around, reminding them to do their chores, (or nag), you are preventing them from learning how to remind themselves. You have to let them fail if you really want them to learn. And when they do fail, you have to be ready to follow through.
If you have never been consistent with consequences, start out with something you know you will be able to follow through with, a reduction in screen time or taking the phone away for part of the day. If they refuse to complete the task, you can increase the time away from the desired benefit.
Again, you have to be clear and consistent. Confusion and inconsistency can result in a frustrated child who may not feel like he or she can talk to you about it. This can do lasting damage to a relationship. You child may get mad at you in the moment when you take their phone away, but they will be incredibly grateful when they are getting to work on time and completing tasks because they learned natural consequences at a young age.

Great Sibling Relationships!

Geoff Patterson is the Senior Pastor at the incredible Forest Lake Church in Apopka, FL. He and his wife Alicia have been have been very serious about the intentional direction of their family for over 15 years. They have tree boys and one girl and have a great family of passion & purpose! Their family vision statement is “TO FOLLOW JESUS, COMMUNICATE GOD’S WORD, AND LEAD THROUGH THE POWER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT.” This is one of the best podcast we have done. We are very thankful for them!! 

A Lazarus Story Named Nathan

The Patterson family from Apopka, Florida is one of our favorite intentional direction families. Greg Gunn visits with Nathan’s parents, Geoff and Alicia Patterson. They tell the amazing story of Nathan’s heart attack/death and the incredible story of how he came back to life! We praise the Lord for this event!Family-iD has a new app these are the links: