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Leaving a Legacy Podcast with John Gillespie 2

Greg Gunn talks to financial advisor John Gillespie about passing on your values before passing on your money!

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John G. Gillespie, CEP, RFC® Certified Estate Planner, Registered Financial Consultant, President and CEO of AFG, and author of, “The Power of Seven Personal Financial Disciplines.” Mr. Gillespie has been a personal financial advisor since 1982. He is also the founder of Access Charitable Consultants and Carved In Stone, Inc. Mr. Gillespie received his Bachelor of Science degree from Trevecca Nazarene University, in Nashville, Tennessee. AFG is guided by Mr. Gillespie’s experience with Trusts, Estate Planning, Investments, Financial Management, and Charitable Gift Planning. Mr. Gillespie holds series 65 registrations.

Active in industry and community organizations, Mr. Gillespie is a member of the National Association of Charitable Estate Counselors, the National Council of Certified Estate Planners, and the Northwest Oklahoma City Chamber of Commerce. He is a faithful supporter of CBMC (Christian Business Mens Connection), and serves on the board of Stand in the Gap Ministries and the National Christian Foundation Generosity Board.

Mr. Gillespie has a son, Jason, and he and his wife, Celeste, of 39 years have two beautiful daughters, Candace and Lauren. The Gillespies are the proud grandparents of three precious granddaughters, Rielyn, Kennedy, and Larkyn, as well as a handsome grandson, Karter.


Interview with Craig Horne

Craig, a born evangelist who is passionate about Jesus and the power of prayer, leads Walnut Hill’s Family Ministry. Once a VP of Soccer Extreme, overseeing the day-to-day operation of the company overseeing the nation’s top youth players, Craig has a heart and passion for sharing Jesus and will use his spiritual gift to help build a church family that is equipped to serve the Lord.

Craig and his wife, Karly, have three young children.

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Raising Responsible Kids

Consistency and clear expectations are key when it comes to teaching your kids to be responsible. Plan out and put on paper the benefits and the responsibilities that come with being a part of your family. Let your kids know exactly what it is they are responsible for and exactly when you want the jobs completed. At this time, explain the benefits of completing the tasks in full and on time, and communicate to them that parents will no longer be issuing reminders. Everyone involved should sign the declaration, and from that point on the natural course of consequence will teach them to get their jobs done on time and in full.
Letting natural consequences teach is incredibly difficult because, first, it does not work immediately, and second, none of us want to see our children miss out on fun things. For the first couple of weeks, your children will probably not get their chores done in full and on time. If you follow them around, reminding them to do their chores, (or nag), you are preventing them from learning how to remind themselves. You have to let them fail if you really want them to learn. And when they do fail, you have to be ready to follow through.
If you have never been consistent with consequences, start out with something you know you will be able to follow through with, a reduction in screen time or taking the phone away for part of the day. If they refuse to complete the task, you can increase the time away from the desired benefit.
Again, you have to be clear and consistent. Confusion and inconsistency can result in a frustrated child who may not feel like he or she can talk to you about it. This can do lasting damage to a relationship. You child may get mad at you in the moment when you take their phone away, but they will be incredibly grateful when they are getting to work on time and completing tasks because they learned natural consequences at a young age.